Experience the Marriage & Relationships you desire

Offering a comprehensive, integrated and relatable approach to Intimacy and Relationships

If you are having trouble in your marriage, in your relationships, if you are going through a separation or divorce or are working to rebuild and reinvent yourself, I am here to work with you to understand yourself and others in an approachable fashion so that you can have the best sex and relationships of your life. It will be unique and it may sometimes be intimidating, but I will be with you every step of the way.

Find Solutions

The goal is to start to see change rapidly. Support and guidance around making that change stick is where we focus most of our time and energy. People come to see me, often knowing what they need to do, but they can’t conceptualize how what they want should be done - or if it even can be done. I am here to creates solutions by first helping you understand what’s beneath the blockages and the behaviors that aren’t yielding results, and then re-teaching you how to be in intimate relationships - emotionally and physically intimate.

Experience Transformation

This work is an investment. It’s a full transformation of what you know to be true and an opening up into the realm of possibility. There is so much ground uncovered - we weren’t taught how to do relationships, we merely saw those around us and modeled our own “relating skills” off of our experiences. We weren’t taught how to have great emotional intimacy and sex, we figured it out. And when that’s not working anymore, we must graduate into a different strategy. And that is the strategy I’m going to teach you.

Be Sustainable

Some of us created a beautiful connection with an amazing partner, but when the relationship didn’t feel easy anymore, our skills in conflict and repair fell short. In so many of these cases I see partners who love each other but feel misunderstood and unsupported. Connection and sex fall away.

I am here to teach you how to create a pleasurable, satisfying and intimate relationship - one that is sustainable. A relationship that fosters individuality and interdependence, two key components of successful partnerships.

About Me

Thea Jansky holds her Masters of Arts Degree in Integrative Health & Healing and completed an additional year of training in Intimacy & Relationship Coaching. She is Certified in Codependency Recovery and trained in Conflict Management, Resolution, Mediation, Dialectical Behavior Therapy and Complex Trauma & the Nervous System. She is currently studying for a second Masters Degree in Psychology. Thea lives in Connecticut with her husband and two daughters.

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FAQ’s

  • I have a few options for working together. You may choose to engage in a 90 minute deep dive session with me where we address a specific issue or small set of issues you are working with. Sometimes, clients use this session to understand if they are interested in working with me further.

    The second and third options are working together weekly for 3 or 6 months. I highly encourage clients to assess whether they are addressing long standing issues in their relationship/marriage and choose accordingly. Many times, 3 months only scratches the surface of our work.

    Working together for 3 months is $2,500

    Working together for 6 months is $4,800

    *payments are divided monthly or paid in full

  • yes, and many of my couples and individuals stay long term to continue working together, building a solid relationship and consistently achieving growth and satisfaction in their lives.

    Most of my couples and individuals drop down to bi-weekly or at minimum, monthly after 3 or 6 months of work.

  • I do not take insurance, I am a self pay provider only.

  • I occasionally have couples engage in separate, individual sessions when one person cannot make a session or if we want to address something that we all 3 feel is better addressed in a separate session, HOWEVER, full honesty and transparency are within my required practices, so I uphold a no secrets policy with all of my couples.

  • Absolutely. Many couples find a challenge in both partners being concurrently on board. It can be inspiring to see your partner begin to make changes in your relationship. Additionally, one person may gain insightful perspectives and make pertinent changes that render the other partner more engaged and willing.

    Many times, I have one partner begin and the other follow suit shortly thereafter.

“Thea’s coaching has had an immediate impact on my relationships, as well as my life. Her innate ability to listen objectively, mitigate unhealthy behaviors, and provide a succession plan to personal growth and development is remarkable. Thea gave me strength to say no to relationships that do not align with my life, the courage to set boundaries for myself and for others, and the vision to identify potential red flags and stressors. Her coaching is exuded with passion and love. Lastly, her propensity to make people feel comfortable is unmatched. Thank you Thea for giving me hope in what I thought was a lost cause. “

“I am a firm believer that certain people are meant to enter your life at a certain point in time. I consider myself incredibly fortunate to have connected with Thea when I did not feel confident or sure about myself romantically as a young single man. From our very first session, Thea was able to accurately sense what I need, while compassionately and skillfully identifying areas that she would help me improve. She has a unique ability to initiate a genuine and honest exchange during our sessions that create an ideal environment for me to feel comfortable with being open and vulnerable. Whether in person, over text, or video calls, Thea maintains her professional yet personable aura, and she consistently approaches my issues from a place of love and empathy. Thea is as real as it gets, and the passion she has for genuinely helping me and her other clients improve in all areas of love and relationships is truly remarkable.”

“Working with Thea is such a rewarding experience. She quickly understood me, my journey and my needs and guided me in such a personal and connected way – making me feel so seen and heard and understood.”