You are not a failure for taking a break. And your life has not ended if divorce is upon you.

It can be difficult to imagine your life without the person you have committed yourself to, built a home and/or family with, and made memories together with. When we organize our life around our marriage, our kids, and our home life, it can be scary and maybe frustrating to explore the question: what comes next?

I think it is crucial to have support during this time of transition, and especially if you are looking to eventually find another partner. Maybe you are worried about attracting the same type of dynamic you found yourself in, or maybe you realize that you need to work on some aspects of yourself so that you can show up differently this time.

If you find yourself in such a place where you are questioning whether you should get divorced at all, or any of the above, this is the place for you.

We will work together to understand and solidify who you are and what you want, We will discuss (if warranted), whether repair of your relationship is possible, and how you might go about that in the event your partner or ex is amenable to the idea. We will explore your half of what you bring to relationship, the good, the bad, and the ugly, and find compassion, understanding, and a path forward. And finally, we’ll prepare you to date, if you are on the journey to finding a new partner.